Yes, you have been chosen as the one. Your best friend has just asked you to be her bridesmaid and after you have screamed “Yessss!†the reality slowly sinks in. Do you know what it takes to be a great bridesmaid? Here are some tips to share with all the ladies on how to be a great bridesmaid.
1. It’s not Me, its all about You.
Sometimes amidst all the excitement in the planning stages, bridesmaids may lose sight of the big picture. They may give suggestions on how they would plan things or make certain decisions be it on wedding gown selection, colour themes and the list goes on. Remember at the back at your mind, this is your best friend’s wedding. All she needs now is your support and help, the last thing would be to give her unnecessary added wedding stress.
2. Say Yes to the Dress
 
Hate pastel colours? Don’t be a difficult bridesmaid.  Â
Understand from the bride the wedding theme and see what designs and colours would work when choosing a bridesmaid dress.
Although it is important that the bridesmaid entourage looks good, deciding on the final colour and design rests primarily on the bride. It's her special day, not yours.
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3. Constant Support
Wedding planning can sometimes be stressful for the bride who needs either emotional support from her best girlfriends or really simply someone to help her out with her never-ending “To-do-listâ€. Be proactive in offering your help and have a positive attitude to ease the bride’s nerves.
On the actual wedding day, it is every bridesmaid’s duty to keep the bride relaxed and happy. Simple gestures such as feeding the bride water to keep her hydrated, compliment on how beautiful she looks goes a long way in easing the wedding jitters.
Put together a wedding kit which includes items such as bobby pins, Hollywood tape, makeup, hairspray and tissues to keep your bride looking flawless all day.
Â4. Plan an Awesome Hen’s Night
Take a break from wedding planning and organize a special hen’s night for the bride! It can be a low key dinner/brunch with all the ladies to unwind or head for a girls night out!
5. Enjoy being a Bridesmaid!
It is a great honour to be selected as part of the bridal entourage and the best opportunity to take part in a major celebration in your best friend’s life. Delegate the responsibilities for each bridesmaid so that everyone can do their part. Have fun and enjoy the experience to be the best bridesmaid you can be.
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